HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR PERFECT PARTNER
The night before I got asked out for dinner by my fiancé for the first time, I’d actually said out loud to my sister, “I’m ready to meet someone.” I’d been enjoying the single life for a while after coming out of a twelve year relationship. Don’t get me wrong, it was hard to adjust to being on my own at first but in the end, it turned out to be one of the best experiences of my life.
After a few months I started feeling happy and excited about my newfound freedom - having full control of my life and my decisions, not having to consider anyone else and really focusing on myself and what made ME happy. I got to decide everything . . . what went where in my new apartment, what I was going to cook, what I wanted to watch on TV, which friends I wanted to invite over and how long I wanted to sleep in! So, after a while of this new independent lifestyle, my dark fears subsided and light happiness set in.
My vibe was really high at this point; I spent a lot of time on my own and grew very strong emotionally. I believed anything was possible for my future and I was excited about it.
I’m sure that’s why a new relationship happened so quickly for me - my high vibration, knowing what I wanted and believing I was going to get it.
When I say I knew what I wanted, I don’t just mean a partner…I’d really given this person some thought. I’m one of those people who write the odd life wish list, strictly between the universe and myself, so I already had a clear idea of the type of person I wanted to be with.
Although it’s probably not healthy to overdo it with the tick list, I think it helps to know what you want in a partner and set your standards in order to attract someone that’s right for you.
When I began my relationship with my fiancé, I had no idea he would be all of the things on my wish list and more, but he was. By thinking about what I wanted and simultaneously feeling happy at the thought of it, I’d attracted it into my life.
So, if you haven’t done this already, here are some questions to consider. . .
Either write the answers down or just think about them. However you choose to do this, take your time to think about them properly because as we know, thoughts become things…
1) How will my partner enhance my life?
2) What kind of life will my partner and I enjoy sharing together?
3) What type of things will I enjoy doing with my partner?
4) How will my partner make me feel?
5) What values do my partner and I share?
6) How will my partner behave around my family and friends?
7) How affectionate will my partner be?
8) How do my partner and I show each other love and respect?
9) What does my partner love about me?
10) How can I be the perfect partner for them?
Now that you’ve got your thoughts and feelings set in motion, it would be very effective to spend some time focusing on them in more detail. This will raise your vibration to a point of attraction and then work as a magnet to bring your perfect partner into your life.
The more you think about what you want, the quicker it will manifest.
If finding your perfect partner is a thought that makes you feel happy, take some time each day to explore these feelings even more. It works best when you can lay down and close your eyes, undisturbed for 10-15 minutes.
When you begin to imagine your life with your future partner, pay attention to the positive feelings you experience, the more intense and enjoyable, the quicker the law of attraction can do its thing.
Imagine experiencing your answers to your 10 questions, envisage it all in detail, exactly as you’d want and expect it to be. Where will you go? What will you do? How will you feel? Whatever you choose to imagine make it as vivid as possible. Your subconscious cannot tell the difference between a real experience and a vivid thought. By visualising with emotion you’re actually teaching your body and mind that you have the perfect relationship already and, believe it or not, this is all you need to do to attract it.
“That which is like unto itself is drawn.” (Abraham Hicks)
Do this regularly (daily if possible) and notice how you start to change. Notice how others start changing around you and then notice when a special someone comes in and changes everything :0)